Waiting for the Backlash

 I dedicate this to King Inspiration, thanks for inspiring me and I am waiting on that $10 million so I can start "Sunny's School of Etiquette."

 

Women we have power, we have ALL the power. A straight man is nothing without us. So tell me why we do everything in our power to destroy them and then cry and carry on about how sick of men we are and how they are dogs and blah blah blah.

Everything wrong with a man was at the hands of a woman. His first female relationship is with his mother, she is the molder who shapes the very clay of his being.

 

---If a guy has a bad relationship with his mom, he is going to carry that with him.  If his mom is some two-bit floozy, he will view all women that way and become a womanizer because that is how women are and if mommy is a ho, then my girlfriend is too, cant trust her.

---Or if his mom was caught up in the drug life (crack is wack), and he had to be raised by grandmom or auntie, well he is fucked because no matter how loving those women are, that's not his mom.  And further more, he will wonder why mommy didnt love enough not to do drugs and keep the family together instead of sucking dick at 17th and Lehigh for some crack.

---How about Domestic Violence (my favorite) and the women who allow it to happen.  Yo either kill dude, or leave him the first time he lays hands on you.  If you son is watching you get your asked kicked regularly and you are lying and telling your kid "Baby its okay, eat your peas"...WHAT!?!?!?!?  The son is more like to be a woman beater than not even if he tries his best not to be one.  He is doomed to repeat that cycle.  Yeah I can blame dude for beating on the chick, but as the mom, you are the nurturer, you are the one who is tough as nails and protects the child. if you cant protect yourself, how are you going to protect me.  The boy is all screwed up and grows up to be Chris Brown.

---Better yet (this is personal experience), the mom spent no time with the child growing up because she was a child herself.  So when he became an adult, she bought her son's love and affection. Oh this dude could get a BMW 745iL out of his mom if he wanted, but deep down all he really wanted (which therapy later revealed) was his mom's love and attention in his younger years.  So because of the disconnect from his mom, he developed abandonment issues which caused him to stay in relationships that were down right rotten for fear of being alone.

 

 

What if said guy has a great relationship with his mom but still turns out to be a dick. Well that has a lot to do with the relationships he has come across from past women.  We are the only ones who can "trick" a dude into marrying us (old school) or staying with us by either faking a pregnancy or forcing a pregnancy.  A woman only has a baby because SHE wants to have a baby, that's it and its not open to debate, PERIOD. 

---Speaking of pregnancy, blaming a dude for a baby that you know isn't his because he seems to be responsible (shenanigans).  I know men who are walking this very earth paying child support for a child that isn't theirs but because they signed that good ol' birth certificate, or if the child was born before 1998 you could just add the father's name, he is legally responsible. If the child is born while in wedlock, you are legally responsible for said child (even if your wife was slutting around).  The system is designed to crush men, but that's another story.  This is the guy you dont want to date.  He is the guy who will not trust a woman and will question your every move.

 

You know that dumb line people say "you wouldnt want someone doing that to your mother or sister would you" but if that (abuse, scandal, treachery, deceit) is what you see happening to your mother/sister/grams/aunt/female cousins then you will not think anything is wrong with it. It will become a "it is what it is" kind of situation.

 

Women, love and respect your Men (sons, nephews, boyfriends, husbands, etc), and they will give it back back 3X over.

 

I'm out, Waka Sunny Flame